Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Adoption is killing my...

mood, hope. I don't mean it but ugh!! All this stuff they want for hubby's DUI is crazy. They faxed me a four page question thing they want the doctor he saw after this classes. He hasn't seen this guy in what 4/5 years. How can fill out this paperwork? One does he remember and two some questions theres no way to know the answer to 5 years later. Then his new doctor here in OK won't give us the letter we need about his seizures because he's only seen him once. Now we have to get a letter from his old doctor in FL also. This is just getting more and more complicated. I'm just frustrated!! Sorry for the cry fest! I'll be ok, I just want this to pass. OH and because he had a DUI instead of just approving us our file has to go to a committee to be reviewed and approved. I checked on this before we applied and our casework said she didn't see a reason why we won't be approved but I'm still scared something will go wrong.

6 comments:

  1. Sorry they are putting you guys through the ringer. People that conceive naturally can have dui's among other things. Sometimes this process makes me so angry. YOu have come this far and are a strong lady.

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  2. I'm sorry, that sounds so stressful! I hope it's just a tiny roadblock and the rest of the process goes quickly and smoothly!

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  3. I have epilepsy and that is one thing that makes me so nervous if a birthmom will choose us or not. We have been assured by our agency that my epilepsy has no bearing on whether we will be approved or not, only if a birthmom will choose us. My epilepsy is well under control so I hope my doctor will make that clear on the forms when we go for our medicals. Hope everything works out well for you!!

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  4. I am so sorry it's become such a complicated thing to deal with. I hope from this moment forward that things go smoothly and that the time until you are a family of three isn't that long.


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  5. hello from ICLW - I hope the process for cert becomes smoother as you get farther along, especially once they receive all they paperwork they're demanding!

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  6. Bleh...I'm sorry this is so freaking hard. I hate that it has to be so hard when most people can go out and get pregnant so easily without having to jump through all these hoops.

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